Given time the grass will usualy look a little greener on the other lawn, from a distance at least. That's because there are tricks that people use to create curb appeal. Damn that curb appeal, you'll get stuck weeding trying to get your new lawn to have the great attention to detail as the last.
I digress, I have spoken extensively about the relationship topic with men and women, and the consensus is;
1. Black women are moderately detached 2.Men work to get what they want, like a to do list(not good for relationships) 3. We stay in relationships for longer than necessary and get consumed 4. We will get over it because there's nothing better to make you forget about the old one than the new one. Our goals and sanity comes first and when we feel a hint of us not being utilized to our potencial. Instead of thinking it all through only a couple of us can see(all single people)that life is too short for confrontation. Relationships are suposed to compliment and be fun for the other person. There is someone for everyone, even those who have an inherited appeal challenge, odds are they're willing to o a litle more than the last if you shop for the right characteristics. So no we wont have everything in one person, but we can have what we need if we compromise and learn a little tolerance.
Don't sweat it let it cuz like grammaw said, there are plenty of fish in the sea...
time for some yardwork.
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